Are you hurting? Have you broken up with your girl and now you realize that it was a dumb thing to do? Want to know the best ways to get my ex girlfriend back? Read on...

Before I tell you the most time proven method around to reconcile with a lost love, I want to make sure that you'll use this information with the right intentions. For one thing, why did you end things with your ex? Was it a case of some serious issues or was it a case that some other woman came on to you and you let your ego run away with you and thought she was better than your ex? If that is the case than do yourself, and your ex a favor, spend some time growing up. The fact is that there are always going to be other people that you find interesting and are attracted to, but if you go chasing after every one of them you will be causing yourself and your ex a lot of pain. That's just not OK. So take some time to become the man that you really want to be, not some insecure child who will run from one 'toy' to the next.

Another thing you have to consider, will you be willing to take stock of the way you treated your ex and the way you acted in your relationship and make all the changes necessary to make things work this time around? Again, if your answer is 'no' than you should just give up on getting your ex back because you'll only hurt her again and she deserves better.

Now that your head is in the right place, you can follow these steps and if you do, you'll have an excellent chance of having her back with you.

The first step is to figure out what happened in your relationship that made everything get screwed up. Figure out what you did, or didn't do, that resulted in the end. Once you've nailed down the cause, take some time to figure out what you need to do, or change, so that you don't make the same mistake next time around. At this point don't worry about the things she did wrong, you can't change her, only focus on your issues.

Once you've made the changes to your behavior and you've grown as a person, contact your ex and ask her is she'd like to get together. Don't pressure her and don't make it sound like you want to discuss your relationship. Instead keep it simple. When the two of you get together charm her, be the loving attentive guy you were the first time the two of you met. With luck she'll notice, and like, the improved version of you and she may suggest giving things another try.

This easy to follow method is one of the best ways to get my ex girlfriend back. Just remember to be yourself, or an even better version of your old self. Leave the games for another time and man up so you can give your girl the love she deserves.